8. Opening topic
Pick something that happened or you talked about in the past to quickly build a sense of connection. You can also joke with her in a humorous way, or give her a simple compliment, such as “You look like a flower today.” These can quickly close the distance between you.
9. When you arrive at the meeting place
(1) Chat skills

When we get to the dating place, one of the things we do most is talk. Many brothers complain that they can’t chat with women, in fact, it is very simple, the first thing to learn to chat is to guide and listen. A good date should share friendly and light topics and avoid creating a formal date atmosphere. Too serious can be stressful for both parties. So ask fewer questions at the beginning of the meeting, you can talk about some topics related to the surrounding scene, or life interests, the core of this stage is to make the atmosphere relaxed and interesting.
For example:

General boys chat:

M: Where are you from?

W: I’m local.

M: Oh, how old are you?

W: Almost 22.

M: Well, I’m a little older than you. You work here, don’t you? What do you do?

Woman: I’m the company’s accountant.

M: Oh, so that’s what you studied in college

Woman: HMM

As you can see, women get bored talking like this.
And we can do this:

When you meet her, you reach out like you want to shake her hand, and when she does, you pull your hand away and smile and say, “Aren’t we getting too old? Relax, ha ha ha.”

Give her a funny nickname, for example, her name has the word Xin, everyone calls her Xin Xin, you call her something else, causing collusion. For example, girls belong to the cute type, you can say: “Later I will call you girl Xin, let’s go to drink something, girl Xin.” If she objects, say, “Oh, yes, little sister.” Add your cold smile (if she is younger than you this will arouse her emotions. She might start role-playing, or start messing with you, calling you little brother or something.)

This stage of the chat is a transitional period, not too long, the following will talk about some connected topics, the purpose is to experience resonance, resonate.

You can talk about your childhood experiences, childhood life, aspirations, college life and so on. As a guide, you can start by telling interesting stories about your childhood, things that happened in college, and your plans and dreams about life.